Anne McNeil ‘73: Healing Through Golf and Service to Veterans

For Anne McNeil ’73, golf is more than a passion; it's a vehicle for healing — both for herself and the veterans she supports through Fairways for Freedom, a nonprofit that helps combat-injured veterans assimilate back into society through holistic initiatives and the game of golf.

After losing her beloved husband, Marty Michelstein, in the September 11, 2001, attacks, McNeil found solace and purpose in working with military veterans, particularly those struggling with the invisible scars of war. This connection began with a round of golf and has evolved into a mission to uplift veterans through the power of community, golf, and shared experiences.

Several years ago, McNeil participated in a charity event at her Cape Cod golf course where three players teamed up with a veteran provided by the SMGA (Salute Military Golf Association). Her all-women team was paired with a 30-year Marine veteran whose inspiring story made an impact on her. At the end of the event, McNeil was asked to help fund the veteran's participation as a mentor on a Fairways for Freedom trip, and she immediately agreed.

McNeil’s act of generosity introduced her to Fairways for Freedom, and it wasn’t long before McNeil became deeply involved. “I wanted to give back to the men and women who fought after 9/11. Most of them enlisted or were deployed because of 9/11, and others enlisted because of it. I'm often the first person they meet who lost someone that day. I can now think about 9/11 and feel that something good came out of something horrible.”

McNeil joined her first Fairways for Freedom trip to Ireland about seven years ago. She recalled how that trip marked the beginning of a life-changing journey. “I’m an ambassador, which means I help sponsor the trips. These vets have become wonderful friends. Some want to share their experiences; others don’t. It’s about connecting with them,” she said. Since that first trip, McNeil has participated in six others, continuing to strengthen her bonds with veterans. (McNeil now sits on the board of the organization.)

Forming Meaningful Connections

Jason Miller, a former Air Force soldier who participated in a recent Fairways for Freedom golf trip, is one of the veterans who’s had a profound impact on McNeil. “He’s an incredibly gentle and sensitive person who’s been through a lot,” McNeil shared. “He doesn’t talk much about his military service or want to be defined by his rank.” During a dark period in his life, Miller twice attempted suicide, but through hard work and Fairways for Freedom, he’s found support and healing. “I think about him every day and worry about him, but I’m in touch with him often. He’s really touched my life, and I believe he’s now on a good track.”

Over the years, McNeil has seen firsthand how Fairways for Freedom makes a difference in veterans’ lives. “It’s not just a ‘fluff’ trip,” she explained. Veterans engage in daily yoga, community breakfasts, and counseling sessions before hitting the links. After dinner, they gather for fireside chats, where ambassadors share their stories. “They’re also required to journal every night—there’s a lot of meaningful work,” she added. “The veterans say it really helps them to be back in a community of fellow veterans.”

McNeil also uses her passion for golf to create opportunities for veterans outside of the Fairways for Freedom trips. One such event arose came when she won a round of golf for four at The Country Club in Brookline, Massachusetts, during Emmanuel College’s Inaugural Golf Tournament last May. The round of golf was generously donated by Tom Hynes, an Emmanuel College Trustee, and McNeil instantly knew who to invite—Miller and his close friend Bill Hayes, both of whom had joined her on a previous Fairways for Freedom trip. “It was a once-in-a-lifetime experience for them.”

“Emmanuel College has always been important to me, so donating a round of golf to help raise funds for the College was an easy decision,” said Hynes. “Spending the day on the course with Anne, Jason, and Bill made it even more rewarding. I had a wonderful time playing with them, and their camaraderie and passion for Fairways for Freedom left a lasting impression on me. It was a reminder of how golf can bring people together, not just for sport, but for healing and meaningful connections.”

Tom Hynes and Anne McNeil at the Francis Ouimet Cottage

In addition to being a gracious host, Hynes gave the golfers a tour of the Francis Ouimet Cottage, a historic site that celebrates the legacy of the famous amateur golfer. Hynes recently purchased and renovated the cottage, which overlooks the golf course. "Hearing about Francis Ouimet's journey inspired all of us, and I think Bill enjoyed that as much as the golf." Anne remarked. "It resonated with the idea that golf can be a path to overcoming challenges."

Through her work with Fairways for Freedom, McNeil has found a way to honor the memory of her husband by lifting up those who need it most.